December 10, 2009

Finding Love in a Soulmate

Knowing if the guy you have recently met, the man that sends your heart a light and creates a surge of adrenalin through your veins when he calls is really your soulmate and not just a lustful indulgence is vexing question to consider.

Often when finding love, we get swept away with the initial excitement of someone new.

Finding love, separating love and lust in the early days is near impossible . To find the answer, you need to spend a quality time with each other.

So in order to assist our readers to find out ‘how to know if he is my Soulmate’, we have put together some practical advice to help you through this process.

1. You have defined this person in your mind before you have met him.

2. Your soul tells you that this man is right for you. You have absolutely no doubt.

3. You are friends as well as passionate lovers. You both have to feel a powerful emotional and physical attraction for each other. True soul mates feel both types of attraction very deeply; they are not mutually exclusive.

4. As a partner in this relationship, you're able to be the same old you. If you chanage the essential core of your being just to please the man you think is your soulmate, think again: he's not the right guy for you. If you've given up on your goals and dreams, or made enormous sacrifices to keep him happy, he isn't your soul mate. It's really just that simple.

5. He is fully aware of your deepest dreams, wishes and dreams in life and he SUPPORTS them.

6. You have a deep commitment to the relationship and to realize each other’s individual goals and dreams within the relationship.

7. You trust this man and you are both loyal to one another.

8. The benefits of being with him far outweigh the costs.

9. Your love for this man is your greatest source of excitement.

10. The thought of not being with him for any extended period of time is unimaginable.

11. Your gut feeling is overwhelmingly positive where this man is concerned. No matter where you go, he's the only guy in the room for you. If thoughts of other men come to your mind a little too frequently, it's doubtful that you've found your soulmate. If it begins to occur to you that you are settling for less than you deserve, you're probably right. You are. Don’t!

12. United, you two are magic. Both of you are always there for each other, always supporting each other's goals.

13. Your souls are destined to take the same path in life.

14. You share the same values and ideals in life, but respect your differences.

15. You want to tell each other everything and have nothing to hide from each other.

16. All of your questions about this man have been satisfactorily answered. You have a good idea that you know the real him.

17. He makes you feel amazing. When he's near, you have an inner sense of tranquility and confidence. There is no anxiety or insecurity that he may leave you for someone else. When he goes out, you do not think that he is looking for anyone else. Any other women in his life are okay with you - you never feel threatened.

18. No sense of urgency permeates your relationship: he's yours, whether or not you sleep with him or do anything else you think is required to keep him close.

19. He makes you feel fully energized and alive.

20. He inspires you and makes you want to be a better person.

21. The two of you are a force to be reckoned with. As a team, you feel you can achieve anything. You feel that you can do anything together.

22. Validation from him isn't necessary to make you feel like a whole woman.

23. Time is an important factor in determining whether this person is your soulmate. With time, you will have the benefit of shared experience. In our experience, it takes three to six months to determine if the man in your life has soulmate potential. Seeing the way he reacts in a number of different situations is the best soulmate determiner.

Finding love is a magical journey that should happen to everyone. If your deepest desire is to live a fulfilling, joyful life, use these suggestions to search and find your soul mate.

 

 

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