February 8, 2010
How To Be A Good Husband
What makes a great husband? How can one become a good husband? For many married men these are the million dollar questions as they struggle to understand the way in which their wives think. Well hopefully this article will provide you with the answers to the above questions, the answers that could ultimately enable you to have a happy, long and successful marriage.
Now I am not a relationship expert or a relationship counsellor. I am just an average guy who tries to live life in what I consider to be the right way. In my business life I am a webmaster of various websites offering amongst others selling external doors, offering DVD authoring and I also run a specialised stuttering course (I have overcome a stutter which had affected my life, in a negative way, for eighteen years).
A good husband is a person who is honest and trustworthy. No trust often leads to no relationship. This trust is something that must be without doubt allowing our wife to feel a sense of security.
Where there are children that have been born from the relationship then the husband should be supportive and loving towards these siblings. I am thinking here of those dads who just go to the pub each night or spend every minute of the day working. Money is important however it most certainly is not everything.
Loving and romantic are the next words that spring to mind when thinking of the required characteristics of a good husband. The odd bunch of flowers bought for no particular reason, a diamond perhaps, these ideas are what can keep that passion alive. Why not write her a love letter or tell her you love her on a more regular basis? Come on guys, you can do it.
Finally before I bore you all completely the last idea from my list is that a decent husband needs to be a good listener. As men we are fully aware of just how much women love to chat, chatting about their family, their friends or their career. Even though you may have absolutely no interest in these subjects try your best to listen!
Filed under Feng Shui by Wendy