September 1, 2010
Moms Who Work Vs Moms Who Stay At Home
Moms of all different types will do good and bad jobs at bringing up their kids, the media is so fast to judge and criticise these women however. It is always important to remember that these women often have no choice in what they do once the baby is born.
For example, take the mom who has to go back to her job out of the home as soon as she possibly can after having a baby. She may be a single mom who is getting no support from the absent father, she has no other option, she will have no money if she doesn't work. Yet she can be seen as cruel for putting the baby into childcare from a young age.
On the flip side you may have a mom who sits at home all day watching day time television whilst the kids are at school, wanders around in her jogging pants and lets the nanny pick up the kids and the cleaner clean the dishes. People may think she is lazy but in reality her husband is one of the best at making stock trading strategies. She doesn't technically even need to go to work!
Moms are looking more and more at making money from a home income opportunity. These moms will be able to do both things the moms above are doing, they can work but at the same time they can be at home and have the flexibility that so many moms would love to have. But even these moms can come under fire as they often work when the kids are around and many frown on this.
So with all of that in mind it is often hard for a mom to know what path to take. But the answer isn't in a book and isn't explained in a leaflet on how to make money online. It comes from within and it comes from necessity, you have to do what's right for you and your family to make sure they're cared for.
What matters is that you and your child are safe, happy, loved and cared for. Moms get too much criticism these days and only they know how it feels to take these words usually from men or people who have never had children.
Moms need to unite and know that they make choices for their families, not for other people and not to fit into society. As human beings we have primitive instincts on how to look after our young and bring them into the world as best we can.
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