August 27, 2010
Relationships Attraction: The Key To Manifesting Your Desires
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationships Coach , writes…
I manifested emotionally incapable lovers, men who lived very far away, or traveled a lot. Even though my father was an emotionally absent father, I thought that because I understood that, I'd consciously choose love relationships with men that wanted a real relationship. Even approaching the last relationship I was in right before achieving my relationship breakthrough, the guy I was in a relationship with simply did not want to commit.
I understood the principles of the Law of Attraction and figured I was functioning correctly in implementing those principles. But, there was a part that was continuously missing.
As a Law of Attraction Coach, I am very clear in saying that if you truly desire to have a relationship that causes your heart to soar - not just any type of relationship - but a truly amazing, abundant, love relationship - it takes a special type of focused desire.
Many of us who are trying to understand the Law of Attraction and how it can manifest in their lives are really posing, "What do I have to do? What do I have to do differently? What I have been trying isn't helping." You can attract Law of Attraction Relationships today and increase your level of creative potential!
So you've been asking, and desiring a perfect, committing love relationship and you desire to know, where is my perfect relationship? Why do I continue to attract the wrong guy?
Let's review some Law of Attraction basics.
In understanding the Law of Attraction, we have established that this is a vibrational Universe - that all things are composed of energy. This energy is in continuous movement and expansion and is humming vibration unceasingly. Everything IS energy. Your ideas, your shirt, solar systems, animals… everything. Your thoughts are energy and have the power to create. Your thoughts are manifest whether you know about the Law of Attraction or not.
The question is, "What kinds of thoughts are you thinking? What is the quality of your thoughts? Are you paying close watch to your wants from a perspective of expectancy or a point of lack?
By honed desire I am referring to the kind of want that is focused uncompromisingly on that which you desire from the point of view of already having what it is you want, rather than focusing in opposition to what you want.
As we know, the Law of Attraction explains that "what you focus your attention on will expand in your life experience. So it's of utmost importance to realize whether you are desiring from a point of lacking what you want or from a point of already having achieved your desire.
Wanting from the perspective of lack (that is, looking at the lack of it as in 'Why isn't it here yet?') puts you in the resisting mode. In other words, the Universe vibrationally mirrors your thoughts, expectations, and your beliefs about your mind - you're projecting a dominant frequency about relationship - with situations and people that match your beliefs.
I was just on the phone with a woman in my Magnetic Attraction Program. She wants to know why her friend who is very negative and prone to complaining just got engaged, while she remains single and alone. Did you see what just happened? Can you understand why? Does this seem like something you would say? First, keep your attention on your vibration. What someone else is doing is none of your concern. If you're comparing what's out there to what's happening in your life, you'll be shot down every single time. Personal creation is an inside job. Imagine and feel your way to what you desire. Number 2, this woman has her attention focused on being single and lonely. The universe can only work with that! The Universe says: "Oh, Mary wants more of the single and lonely experience. We love her so much and would never go against her free will. Let's give her more of what she is wanting".
The program that I was running was "I am playing it safe and perpetually keep a little back. This way if things go south, I can simply escape without too much hurt".
If you are single and wanting lasting love, pose this question to yourself: "What's my primary vibration or limiting belief about it being possible for me?" Bring up those blocks, think and feel your way to a better feeling place. You can change your point of attraction instantly. Now all there is to do is continue there and love the result.
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